33 Replies to “The Major RED FLAG You Should Never Ignore In A Man (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)”

  1. I always tell my girlfriends that when thinking long-term they have to accept the qualities in their mate. Not to expect change because if they say something before the relationship becomes serious that is a break for you…don't hope that you can change them…highly unlikely.

  2. What if I just got really mad at him for his lack of investment…. I still want things to work with us. I just get so emotional when left on my own, and we have poor communication. I addressed our poor communication with him, but he’s a really busy person and didn’t do anything different. He got mad at me for texting him a lot all at once and ignored me. I blew up on him for ignoring me… he’s also my ex boyfriend who has told me he’s missed me a lot, and I was really touched by his words. Thoughts?

  3. Great video. So true in so many ways. I was married to someone that wouldn't change and tried to change me. I tried to be the woman he wanted me to be. But I lost who I was in the process and became very depressed and not happy with myself or life. Once I realized what was happening, I decided to leave the marriage and I'm divorced now. I'm so much happier being myself again. Never again will I settle with someone who wants to change me. BTW I love the funny skits of you with the vanilla ice cream. Cracked me UP! LMAO!

  4. Up your psychology game, bruh – go find Jordan b Peterson's stuff about this phenomenon. It's just another retelling of beauty and the beast. Apparently what we really want as woman is a man who is dangerous but not dangerous for us. So there's appeal in the idea of finding an uncivilized man and civilizing him.

    People don't change, but then sometimes also they do. Humans are so endlessly fascinating.

    (She says as if she isn't one ?)
    (Full disclosure: I am 8 years and 3 kids deep in a marriage to someone I trust completely. And he has grown and changed so much for the better over that stretch of time. I loved who he was and I love who he is.

    So, point: this conversation is interesting and could really be expanded a ton :3 )

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  7. I wouldn't say that she have a "fanesy " I would say that it's more her ego and the chalange that she can change him …. But u are right 2 people need to meet both in the middle ?

  8. It's been a while since I read this as a fanfic before it went mainstream, but from what I remember, Anastasia said no to Christian, but he didn't really let her say no. He pretty much stalked the crap out of her. He really did want to change but was so damaged he didn't know how to do it on it his own.

    Aside from all that I think your message is on point. I am always surprised when someone thinks they can change a person, it just means they don't actually like them as they are, but for the potential they may have. Which is pretty sad and unhealthy! Great topic!

  9. I just broke up with someone I was with because I wanted to change/save them.
    I still believe he can change, but I have removed myself from him.
    I told him that if he wants to be with me, he needs to make necessary changes and prove them but I won't be there waiting.
    I will continue my life and open a world of opportunities. If I'm important and worth it for him, then he will need to work to become worthy of me.

    Let's see what happens

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